Motherhood may not come with an instruction manual, but it does come with an overwhelming amount of external noise about what a ‘good mother’ should look like, feel like, and how she should behave.

Think of your Motherhood Code like your unique motherhood compass - the new set of beliefs and standards you want to live, mother and work by.

Confidence.

It’s something we all struggle with at some stage, particularly as women and mothers.

We want to feel less anxious, more self-assured, and certain in our choices.

We want to appear calm, in control, like we have our act together.

We may believe that being more confident will lead to more success, happiness, and fulfilment.

But is confidence really the answer?